The Grief Disruptor™
She didnt move on, she moved through it and built an empire.
She didnt move on, she moved through it and built an empire.



What happens when your husband diagnosed with Stage 4 Colon Cancer and dies at 49 and the world expects you to shrink, disappear, or “move on quietly”?
In this powerful episode of Triggs Table Talks, Dr. Wilton Triggs sits down with Donielle Young, speaker, grief transition expert, and founder of The Grief Disruptor™, for a raw, unfiltered conversation about loss, identity, leadership, and rebuilding a life around grief not in spite of it.
After losing her husband to stage 4 colon cancer, Donielle returned to corporate life, only to realize something was missing: representation of women especially Black women who were not just surviving widowhood, but evolving through it. So she became the voice, presence, and example she couldn’t find.
In this conversation, Donielle and Dr. Triggs explore:
• Losing a spouse young while raising a teenager through grief
• Why grief doesn’t “end” and how to build a meaningful life around it
• The difference between grit and performative strength
• How culture, judgment, and social media shape the grief narrative
• Dating, desire, identity, and joy after loss
• Aging, body image, and reclaiming femininity
• Donielle’s G³ framework — Grief → Grit → Glow-Up — as a leadership and life model
This episode is not about “getting over” grief.
It’s about leading through it.
Donielle Young brings a rare combination of intellectual depth, emotional intelligence, and lived experience, making her a sought-after voice for conferences, panels, corporate spaces, nonprofits, and media platforms seeking conversations that actually move people.
🎤 Available for speaking engagements, panels, and moderated discussions.
If you’re looking for a speaker who challenges outdated narratives, commands the room, and leaves audiences changed this is the conversation to watch.
in this episode of The Knucklehead Podcast, hosts sit down with Donielle Young, speaker, grief transition expert, and founder of The Grief Disruptor™ a powerful voice redefining how we talk about healing, trauma, and life after loss.
Donielle doesn’t offer surface-level motivation. She tells the truth about what happens after survival mode when the grief quiets, but the work begins.
This conversation explores why so many people carry pain silently, how unresolved trauma shows up in adult relationships, and what it actually takes to rebuild identity after loss, heartbreak, or major life disruption.
Together, they unpack:
• Why grief is often hidden, minimized, or delayed
• How survival mode rewires relationships and self-worth
• Trauma patterns passed down through generations
• The psychological cost of “being strong” for too long
• What it means to reclaim power, voice, and identity after loss
This episode is raw, grounded, and deeply human especially for anyone navigating grief, transition, or emotional burnout.
Donielle Young brings lived experience, intellectual depth, and commanding presence to conversations that most people avoid making her a sought-after speaker for podcasts, panels, corporate spaces, nonprofits, and leadership forums.
🎤 Available for speaking engagements, panels, and moderated discussions.
If you’re ready for an honest conversation about healing that doesn’t sugarcoat the process this episode delivers.
📍 Watch the full interview on The Knucklehead Podcast (YouTube).
Featured on Triggered AF Podcast, Knucklehead Podcast, Trigg’s Table Talks, Real Dads Podcast just to name a few.
These aren’t just interviews they’re conversations that shake the table.
When Donielle speaks, people feel seen, called out, and lit up.
🎙️ You’re next. Let’s make your audience feel something real.
I help women rebuild their lives after loss not by erasing their grief, but by teaching them how to live beautifully within it. Because healing isn’t about moving on; it’s about moving through with purpose, power, and joy.
Through my signature G³ Method (Grief →Grit → GlowUp™️), I help organizations and individuals build grief capacity: the ability to face hard things without falling apart.
My talks blend raw storytelling with real tools for emotional intelligence, leadership, and reinvention.
Each talk blends heart, humor, and strategy leaving audiences seen, inspired, and ready to rise.
Each talk blends heart, humor, and strategy leaving audiences seen, inspired, and ready to rise.
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The no-fluff, step-by-step guide to move from grief to grit to glow-up. Raw, relatable, and ready when you are.

Transformative experiences that turn pain into power through storytelling and emotional intelligence.

Grief doesn't get the final say. As The Grief Disruptor, I challenge the old narrative that Grief Must be quiet, heavy, or lived in silence. I help people turn pain into power-through storytelling, community and bold conversations that normalize healing in all Forms.
I teach the G³ Method a framework built on three phases: Grief, Grit, and Glow-Up. It’s how we turn pain into power and rebuild from what tried to break us.
This isn't about "getting over it" Its about building life around it-and learning all its forms.
Donielle didn’t just survive.
She rebuilt while grieving, parenting, healing, and trying to figure out who she was without a map. Her power didn’t come after the pain it came through it.
Before founding MHDS, Donielle worked in corporate finance and digital marketing managing multimillion-dollar portfolios, Google campaigns, and C-suite strategy. She didn’t just build this brand with heart she built it with skills.
She’s not here to inspire. She’s here to ignite. Donielle helps women reclaim voice, power, and truth after deep loss by showing up raw, real, and unfiltered. This isn’t branding. It’s legacy.

Born from the ruins of grief, betrayal, and abandonment.
MHDS started as a whisper from the pit of grief but turned into a platform that couldn’t be silenced.
This isn’t branding.
It’s a reckoning.
A reclamation.
A response.

MHDS Media is a multimedia empowerment platform.
It’s not here to heal you it’s here to hold space while you heal yourself.
From reels to real talk, we tell the truth the world avoids.
We show up in the chaos, the clarity, and the comeback.

This is for women who buried more than a person they buried pieces of themselves.
For the ones reclaiming identity and joy in the messy middle.
For those choosing to glow without apologizing for what it cost them.
This isn’t just widowhood. It’s rebirth in motion.
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